Red red roses that fill the room with its undeniable lovely fragrance, one thats indeed of beauty and easily allures just anybody around. A soft candle lit dinner, heart shaped balloons hung where it fits best, chocolates and flowing music all set to fill your senses and allow you to merge on through the night. The breezy weather outside suitably fits your mood as the wind softly blows the curtains. The serenading wind blows and you can see stars shinning their brightest. And then right beside you, the person you have given your heart to , looks at you with such love in his eyes like he has never loved another, like he has never seen one as beautiful as you. I pictured this perfect dinner setting with two lovebirds in my mind. I think its pretty romantic and perhaps it would be a less ordinary occasion for any couple. Yet my idea of romance is more than just candle lit dinners, its just not a perfect night of saying I love yous and savoring a single day of happiness. Maybe moments like these are necessary because they give us a lift, an extraordinary feeling and it certainly tells us that sometimes its important to spend quality time together. Romancing is just not an affair that you keep for the sake of it and not because you are scared to be alone. Its that love in your heart for a person that takes you beyond your horizons and farer than you can imagine. A perfect romance is loving wholeheartedly without any reservations. It is accepting each other just the way he or she is,it is tolerating each others temper and the things you dont always agree to. It is trusting and being honest.It is having dreams of a life together. Romancing is doing things for each other and never having to ask the other person to repay you back. My whole idea of romance comes down to love because love is the reason why it all began and it is this driving force that is going to stand the test of time. It may not be frequently or may not even be once-in-a-year thing that you have romantic candle lit dinners or it may be that you never have it at all. One thing I can assure you, if you love with all your heart, no matter what situation you are in, then you are romancing all the way. For romance is just a virtue of love.All I know about it is that you do everything and anything for your soulmate with love, counting the joys of simply being in each others presence, watching rainbows, going for walks, taking care of each other and just treading life together through thick and thin. Until one truly loves, he has never romanced. |
